Nov 12, 2012 Dear ProLife Colleague, In the Nov election, at least two candidates (Indiana, Missouri) can attribute a large portion of their loss to media capitalization of well-meaning but very clumsy or misinformed statements about rape in the abortion context. It is a hot topic. Actually, the person rarely heard from is the rape victim. Hear from one. Listen to her. And, if this is a topic of particular interest to you, there is abundant information on this topic referenced in this letter. The “Hard Cases:’ Rape Note: The following is a guest post (copied from the Elliot Institte Action Alert) from a member of the Ad Hoc Committee of Women Pregnant By Sexual Assault (WPSA). I’ve been there. Not Todd Akin. Not Richard Mourdock. And certainly not their critics who sanctimoniously imagine that they know what pregnant sexual assault victims really want and need. As my story shows, all too often, our self-appointed champions do more harm than good. I was 17, drugged and raped. When I learned I was pregnant, my family, counselors, and doctors took control. They intended the best. They wanted to help me. And even though there are literally no studies showing any benefit from abortion, they had total confidence in the social myth that abortion is the best option, even the only option, in cases of sexual assault. Even many pro-lifers approve of abortions in cases of rape. So surely it must be the best choice, right? Not in my case. It just added more layers of trauma, self-doubt, grief and guilt. The negative impact lasted for years. I’m not alone. A national study http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8765248 published in 1996 found that half of the estimated 32,000 rape pregnancies which occur each year end in abortion. Note: half. Not even 60 percent. That so many women choose to give birth after rape, despite the social expectations and pressure to abort, should give you pause. Why aren’t all rape victims embracing the conventional wisdom that abortion is the best treatment for rape pregnancies? A hint is found in another study http://afterabortion.org/2010/sexual-assault-and-abortion-survey/ of 164 women who had rape pregnancies (conducted for the book Victims and Victors). In that study, the majority of those who had abortions said it only caused additional problems and the vast majority regretted having abortions. By contrast, among those who delivered the child, satisfaction was higher and none stated any regret for giving birth. Why are these facts so little known? It is because many people on both sides of the abortion debate are more concerned with their ideologies than they are the complex nitty-gritty details which confound sound bites. Because the actual experiences of pregnant sexual assault victims have not been widely heard, the social myth that abortion is the best, or even the only, option in cases of rape pregnancies is almost universally accepted. This universal myth creates its own set of problems for women. When a pregnant sexual assault victim balks at having an abortion, she will almost immediately faces queries of suspicion from family and friends. How can any woman have a rapist’s child, they wonder? And then the suspicion mounts . . . maybe she lied. Maybe she was not really the victim of a “legitimate” rape? And so the assumption that surely a real rape victim would want an abortion creates a new pressure on hurting women, in a time of intense crisis, to accept the recommendation of abortion, despite moral qualms and heightened sensitivity to victimization, to swallow their reservations and have the abortion if only to silence the rising doubts about their rape story. I hope I’ve convinced you that the rape and abortion issue is not as simple as you’ve always assumed. This is why I have joined the Ad Hoc Committee of Women Pregnant by Sexual Assault (WPSA). https://www.facebook.com/supportwpsa For eight years, we have been petitioning http://afterabortion.org/rapepregnancypetition/ Congress to hold hearings to allow us to describe our own experiences, insights, and needs. It is our hope that if policy makers, the media, and well intentioned people on all sides of the abortion debate finally hear the truth from those who have been there. Only when our voices and experiences are included in future discussions and arguments over rape, incest, and abortion will those discussions and arguments be less blatantly ignorant and hurtful. Whatever side of the abortion debate you are on, I hope you’ll agree that our voices should be heard. Please call your representative and senators and ask them to endorse our petition. It’s time to replace posturing with knowledge. And in this case, knowledge can come only from those who have actually been there. ~~~ The author is a member of the Ad Hoc Committee of Women Pregnant By Sexual Assault (WPSA). A Call to Action Please help. We need a broad grassroots effort to build a platform by which women who experienced a pregnancy resulting from sexual assault will finally be heard. But so far, the WPSA petition has gone mostly unnoticed. Call your legislators. Please call your state and federal legislators and ask them to take a public position in favor of having the hearings requested by WPSA. Call your pro-life and pro-family leaders. Please call any of the pro-life and pro-family groups you support, especially any with lobbyists in Washington, D.C., and ask them to support the hearings. Become a WPSA Supporter. To be a part of this effort, go here http://afterabortion.org/rapepregnancypetition/ to read the petition and sign up to be a WPSA Supporter (just fill out the webform there to be added to our Supporters’ List). Share this information. Then, please share this information, and copies of the petition, with your legislators and with pro-life leaders and lobbyists. And share it with other pro-life advocates, family members and friends and ask them to become WPSA Supporters, too. WPSA is now on Facebook! If you are on Facebook, “like” the Support WPSA Page and share it with others. If you are a woman who has experienced a pregnancy resulting from rape or incest, you can join WPSA and add your name to the petition (you need not go public to join WPSA). Thank you for supporting this effort! Learn More The Despicable “God Intends Rape” http://www.theunchoice.com/specialreports/sexualassault.htm Comments Special Report on Sexual Assault Pregnancy and Abortion The Hard Cases: New Facts, New Answers (reproducible download) http://www.theunchoice.com/specialreports/sexualassault.htm Victims and Victors http://afterabortion.org/2005/victims-and-victors-speaking-out-about-their-pregnancies-abortions-and-children-resulting-from-sexual-assault/ Get Involved Support WPSA Join WPSA Like WPSA on Facebook Link to this article. http://afterabortion.org/rapepregnancypetition/ General literature on rape-related pregnancy: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8765248
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